Message at the Top
January 29, 2012
"Responding to a Cry for Help"
Part 1
Good
morning, everyone. Thank you for joining
us this last Sunday morning of the winter month of January, 2012, and
welcome
to “Message at the Top.” Get set for the
top 10 songs of our country right now and some top 10 songs from the
2000’s,
90’s and 80’s as well. Our topics will
range from love to guns to complicated lives.
I am Fr. Mike Scully and you have your dial set to Mix 103, the number
one rock station in Central Kansas. It is great to have you
with us. Our motto continues to be the plea that we
make to you—to enjoy the music, and at the same time, listen to
the message so
that the message can truly affect your lives for the better.
During
our show today, we will play the top 5 songs of meaning of the year
2009
according to MATT, and the number 5 song was from the group Kings of
Leon
called “Use Somebody,” the grammy award winning best song
of the year that
year, and its message which we’ll study in just a minute is a
plea to someone
else to help them. Let’s look at that
idea in general first before we study the meaning of their song in
particular.
One of
the concepts of psychology that must be studied as we think in
particular about
how we interact with others is what is called “a cry for
help.” Psychologists tell us that certain actions
indicate “a cry for help.”
Self-mutilation, excessive silence, no desire to be out in public,
continual self degradation, and so forth are strong indications that
something
is the matter with the individual, and what he/she is doing is merely
acting in
such a way because of the pain and hurt in the mind. What they
need is for someone who really
cares for them, and to show it in some way.
The cries for help that are not as serious are the ones most of us are
familiar with. We all know of the young
person who just doesn’t get involved because no one has asked
them or the
person who always wants to be left alone or the person who always looks
so
sad. These might be labeled as “minor
‘cries for help’”, that is, the people who are
involved in that type of
activity are doing nothing more than saying to other people who might
be
interested, “pay attention to me—I need some help.”
And what
can be done? That is, what are the
solutions to the cries for help that we see in our lives?
Obviously, it calls for us who care about the
situation, to see if there is something that we can do to help,
something that
we can say to lessen the pain of someone who is suffering at that time.
I
think of all of these things because the group Kings of Leon’s
song, “Use
Somebody” can be studied as a cry for help.
Their song can also be viewed as a song
in which
the man in the relationship is begging the other partner to pay
attention to
him, but it can be looked at as a man who is hurting for whatever
reason, and
is asking for help. “I’ve been
roaming
around,” the group begins their song, “always looking down
at all I see—painted
faces fill the places I can’t reach. You
know that I could use somebody, someone like you, and all you know and
how you
speak. I hope it’s gonna make you
notice
someone like me.” We have talked
about
“begging another” as not a good way to enter a romantic
relationship because it
takes two people to develop the love, but if we look at the song as a
cry for
help to anyone who will listen, it is a challenge to a person who might
care
for another. Let’s entitle our show
this
week, “Responding to a Cry for Help,” and see what the
songs of our show say in
terms of that. This is from the album
“Only by the Night”, the group formed in Tennessee not too
long ago, Kings of
Leon the number 5 song of meaning of 2009, our theme song throughout
our show
today, “Use Somebody” on MATT.
(double)
USE SOMEBODY / Kings of Leon
IT WILL RAIN
/ Bruno Mars
Part 2
Current
music from the album “Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn,” that
was Bruno Mars, and
his latest, “It Will Rain” on MATT. It
is a statement of love to someone that talks about the possibility of a
breakup, and you’re led to believe that he is speaking about it
with a little
knowledge, like it has happened before.
The video to the song depicts the same
thing. “If you ever leave me,”
Bruno Mars begins the
song, “leave some morphine at my door ‘cause it would take
a whole lot of
medication to realize what we used to have.
There’s no religion that could
save me no matter how long my knees are
on the floor. So keep in mind all the
sacrifices I’m makin’ to keep you by my side, to keep you
from walkin’ out the
door. ‘Cause there’ll be no
sunlight if
I lose you. There’ll be no clear
skies;
just like the clouds, my eyes will do the same, if you walk away. Every day, it’ll rain, rain, rain.” This is a pretty depressing song because it
is sung as the two breakup, and from his point of view, anyway, can
easily be
seen as a cry for help, our theme today.
The way to respond to it, of course, is
for the other to come back to
him, but that must be her decision.
Our first triple play of the morning
involves the talents of Adele, Nickelback and Shinedown.
First, we go to the first of two current
songs from Adele. It is a song speaking
of the contradictions that are present in a relationship.
The lady in the relationship begins by
recognizing that she needs the man: “My hands,” she sings,
“they’re strong, but
my knees were far too weak to stand in your arms without falling to
your
feet. But,” she continues,
“there’s a
side to you that I never knew, all the things you’d
say—they were never true,
and the games you play, you would always win.
But I set fire to the rain, watched it
pour as I touched your face. Well, it
burned while I cried ‘cause I heard
it screaming out your name.” And the
whole relationship is still there in her mind.
She sings, “Even now when
we’re already over, I can’t help myself from
looking for you.” She always writes
with
poetry and here: setting fire to the rain is impossible of course, and
it means
that their relationship is impossible as long as the man in the
relationship is
not being honest to the lady. Good
lyrics, and fitting into our theme this morning, the song is a cry for
help to
the man in the relationship, and the way he must respond is to change
some
behavior patterns. Good song to study,
Adele from her album “21”, “Set Fire to the
Rain” on MATT.
(triple)
SET
FIRE TO THE RAIN / Adele
GOTTA
BE SOMEBODY / Nickelback
SECOND
CHANCE / Shinedown
Part 3
That was from their album “Sound
of Madness”,
“Second Chance,” the group Shinedown from a couple of years
ago on MATT. The message is one of telling
another that
the person in the song must strike out on his/her own, away from where
they
are, and begin again. “Tell my
mother,
tell my father,” they sing in their refrain, “I’ve
done the best I can to make
them realize this is my life. I hope
they understand: I’m not angry, I’m just saying: sometimes
goodbye is a second
chance. Please don’t cry one tear
for
me. I’m not afraid of what I have to
say. This is my one and only voice, so
listen close: it’s only for today.
Here’s my chance.
This is my
chance.” The man is starting again
in
some way, probably headed to some other place, something that all of us
may do
in one way or another at some time in our lives. As
we consider our theme this week, namely,
responding to a cry for help, someone who is crying for help in some
way is
asking for a second chance, and our response, if we are Christian, is
to try to
give that to everyone.
Before
them, the number 4 song of meaning of 2009 from the group Nickelback,
“Gotta Be
Somebody”. It was from their CD “Dark
Horse,” and it began this way: “This time I wonder what it
feels like to find
the one in this life, the one we all dream of, but dreams just
aren’t enough,
so I’ll be waiting for the real thing, ‘cause nobody wants
to be the last one
there, ‘cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares, someone
to love with
my life in their hands—there’s gotta be somebody for me
like that ‘cause nobody
wants to do it on their own, and everyone wants to know they’re
not alone. There’s somebody else that feels the same
somewhere—there’s gotta be somebody for me out there.”
Their song is a statement of fact, and a statement
of hope. The person in the song hasn’t
found that somebody yet, but they feel strongly that such a person
exists, and
you get the feeling from the song that they will extend the energy it
takes to
find that somebody. The phrase to think
about is: “everyone wants to feel like someone cares.”
Because—and this is our theme today—we all
cry for help in one way or another, and the job of a concerned person
in our
world is to respond if we can.
The thought that we are working with
today came from the group Kings of Leon and their song “Use
Somebody” and we
are talking about the idea of responding to a cry for help. To close off this segment, here’s a
quote
from Rev. Robert Schuller: “When you can’t solve the
problem, manage it.” Good thought,
and in terms of our theme, as
you respond to another’s cry for help, remember that you’ll
never solve the
problem completely, but you’ll manage it by listening. We’ve got great music directly in front
of
you from Adele, Maroon 5, Kelly Clarkson, David Guetta and Green Day. This is MATT on Mix 103. Stay
with us!
We’ll be right back!
COMMERCIAL
BREAK
Part
4
You are in tune with “Message at
the
Top,” your top 10 show on Mix 103.
Welcome back to the songs that are most
popular in this area as well as
the songs that have been most popular for the past 30+ years. We take the top 10 from today and over the
years, and study their messages, and then, call our show MATT. I’m your host, Fr. Mike Scully. It’s great to have you here. We have taken our theme from the number 5
song of meaning of 2009 “Use Somebody” by the group Kings
of Leon. They have inspired us to entitle
our show
“Responding to a Cry for Help”.
We’ll
begin this segment with a double play, one from our current music from
Maroon
5, the other very interesting music from the past from Green
Day—of course,
most of their music is very interesting.
But first of all, Maroon 5 singing along
with Christina Aguilera. Calling to mind
the
leader of the Rolling Stones, Mick Jagger, they sing: “Just shoot
for the
stars; it feels right, and aim for my heart.
Kiss me and I’ll show you all the
moves like Jagger. I don’t need to
try to control you. Look into my eyes and
I’ll own you. I’ve got the
moves like Jagger.” The man in the
relationship is telling the
other person that he will show her a good time and all she has to do is
trust
him. As we use the theme of
“Responding
to a Cry for Help,” in a sense he is crying out to the lady for
help, our theme
today, but romantic help is different from the help that we are
thinking
of. This is the group Maroon 5, and
singing along
with them is Christina Aguilera, and their song “Moves Like
Jagger” current top
10 this morning on MATT.
(double)
MOVES LIKE JAGGER / Maroon 5 f/
Christina
Aguilera
21 GUNS /
Green Day
Part 5
From
their latest album “21st Century Breakdown,”
Green Day there, “21
Guns,” from a couple of years ago on MATT.
It is a song with a
clever video that contains themes of alienation and politically
motivated
anger. “Do you know what’s
worth
fighting for?” they begin the song, “when it’s not
worth dying for? Does it take your breath
away and you feel
yourself suffocating? Does the pain
weigh out the pride? And you look for a
place to hide? Did someone break your
heart inside, you’re in ruins. One,
21
guns, lay down your arms, give up the fight, throw up your arms into
the
sky.” They are presenting anger, it
seems, and the statement to give it up in spite of the fact that people
are
shooting at them. As we look at our
theme of responding to a cry for help, when someone is very angry,
usually that
in itself is a cry for help, and should be responded to in some way.
We
have another triple play for you now from Kelly Clarkson first, then
Adele
again, and we’ll finish it off with David Guetta.
First to Kelly Clarkson, and a song
about the
importance of knowing another person in a relationship. She
sings of the lady in a relationship who is
letting the other person in that relationship know that she is leaving
because
he claimed to know her and really doesn’t.
“Mr. Know It All,” she
begins her song, “Well, you think you know it
all, but you don’t know a thing at all.
Ain’t it something when somebody
tells you something ‘bout you, think
that they know you more than you do.”
He’s trying to do that to the
lady, and so she says: “I ain’t laying
down. You should know that I lead, not
follow. Oh, you think that you know
me. That’s why I’m leaving you
lonely,
‘cause you don’t know a thing about me.”
In a sense, every romantic relationship
is a cry for help, and he didn’t
respond at all to her. This is Ms. Kelly
Clarkson from her album “Stronger,” and “Mr. Know It
All” current top 10 on
MATT.
(triple)
MR. KNOW IT ALL / Kelly Clarkson
SOMEONE LIKE
YOU / Adele
WITHOUT YOU
/ David Guetta
Part 6
Current
music from David Guetta and Usher, from David Guetta’s album
“Nothing But the
Beat,” “Without You”, and a 10+ category song for a
couple of reasons. Their opening words
are: “I can’t win, I
can’t reign,” the man in a relationship sings, “I
will never win this game
without you. I am lost, I am vain, I
will never be the same without you. I
won’t run, I won’t fly, I will never make it by without you. I can’t rest, I can’t fight, all I
need is
you and I.” It can be looked at as a
love song, the man in the relationship calling for the other to be with
him,
but—and this is one reason I consider it to be a 10+ song of
meaning—it could
be a prayer to a Higher Being. The other
reason is from the excellent video. The
video presents the whole world coming together, saying that everyone
needs
everyone to make it a good world. Great
message, and fitting into our theme of “Responding to a Cry for
Help,” well,
how about this: one of the gigantic cries for help is from our world,
and
everyone should work at truly responding by coming together a little
more. Great song and video to study.
Before
them, we heard a great song from Adele. It
is
a 10 category of meaning song for me, the second highest I get, and her
song “Someone Like You”. It
deals with a breakup again, and to my mind, exactly how a former love
relationship should be treated. She is a
little vindictive to begin with / which is not good, but finally she
says: “Never
mind, I’ll find someone like you. I
wish
nothing but the best for you too.
Sometimes it lasts in love, but
sometimes it hurts instead.” That is
an excellent statement. There is pain
there, but it is pain from
which the lady in the relationship learned.
There is a tremendous amount of learning
happening for the person in the
song. Working with our theme of
“Responding to A Cry for Help,” their original relationship
may have been that,
but it seems that both are healthy enough now—him, moving on,
her, wishing him
well.
And we have played our
way to another break right now. We still
have another hour of great rock music to go.
In order of appearance, directly in
front of us, we have Daughtry, Bon
Jovi, Rihanna, Coldplay, The Fray and Katy Perry. I
hope you remain with us. To break with a
thought from Mr. Elbert
Hubbard, and a good one it is. “Positive
anything is better than
negative nothing.” Good
thought and the type of attitude that we
absolutely need if we are going to respond to any cry for help, our
theme
today. I’m Fr. Mike Scully, and this
is
the MATT music network on Mix 103.
COMMERCIAL BREAK
Part
7
Welcome
back to MATT and the top 10 songs of today and the past 30+ years or so.
My name is Fr. Mike Scully, and we are
starting hour number 2 of our show this morning, a show that is talking
about
responding to a cry for help. Our hope
continues to be that you enjoy the music that is part of Mix 103 here
every
day, and at the same time that you listen to the message which we give
you here
on MATT, and find in that message some very good guiding thoughts to
live by.
A
triple play begins our second hour together, and it comes from Daughtry
from
the present, Bon Jovi from the past, and Rihanna from the present. First to Daughtry and
his band with current music: “Lessons learned,” the man in
a relationship
begins the song, “bridges burned to the ground, and it’s
too late now to put
out the fire, tables turned, and I’m the one who’s burning
now. Well I’m doing alright,
‘til I close my eyes,
and then I see your face, and it’s no surprise: just like that,
I’m crawling
back to you just like you said I would.
I swallow my pride, now, I’m
crawling back to you. I’m out of my
head, can’t wait any longer,
down on my knees. I thought I was
stronger.” He had hurt her in the
past,
he realizes what he has done, and so he is coming back to her,
presumably
asking for forgiveness, but you’re not sure from the song whether
she gives it
to him or not. As we work with the theme
of “Responding to A Cry for Help,” he wants her to respond
to his cry for help,
and it is a tough situation to be in for him.
This is “Crawling Back to
You” from Daughtry’s album “Break the Spell”
on MATT.
(triple)
CRAWLING
BACK TO YOU / Daughtry
HAVE
A NICE DAY / Bon Jovi
WE
FOUND LOVE / Rihanna
Part 8
Robyn Rihanna Fenty, better known
simply as Rihanna, and current top 10 music, “We Found
Love” from her album
“Talk That Talk” on MATT. On
the album,
the lady in the relationship begins the song with the statement of the
problem:
“It’s like you’re screaming, and no one can hear. You almost feel ashamed that someone could be
that important; that, without them, you feel like nothing.
No one will ever understand how much it
hurts. And when it’s over, you
almost
wish that you could have all that bad stuff back so that you could have
the
good.” And the lyrics of the song
say
the same thing a little more poetically: “Yellow diamonds in the
light. Now we’re standing side by
side, as your
shadow crosses mine, what it takes to come alive. It’s
the way I’m feeling, I just can’t deny,
but I’ve gotta let it go. We found
love
in a hopeless place.” She
doesn’t
explain why she has to let it go, but my guess is that she is crying
out for
help because of the hurt in her life, and she wants the man in the
relationship
to respond.
Before her, we heard from Bon Jovi
and the lead song from their album “Have a Nice Day”. I really like the message and the sound of
the song. “If there’s one
thing I hang
onto, it gets me through the night,” they sing, “I
ain’t gonna do what I don’t
want to. I’m gonna live my life. Shining like a diamond, rolling with the
dice, standing on the ledge, show the wind how to fly.
When the world gets in my face, I say,
have a
nice day.” That is to say, the
person in
the song is in charge of his life—he’s gonna live his life,
and not depend on
someone else. He sounds a little bit
angry, and anger in itself is a cry for help, our theme today. The way to respond to it usually is to allow
the angry person to vent, and all we do is listen.
Our second triple play of this
segment begins with current music from the English group Coldplay. The song tells the story of a girl who seems
to be lost, and then she
finds herself. “When she was just a
girl,” they began the song, “she expected the world, but it
flew away from her
reach, so she ran away in her sleep, dreamed of paradise every time she
closed
her eyes.” Interestingly enough, she
seems to find that this world really
is paradise. They sing, “So, lying
underneath those stormy skies, she said ‘I know the sun must set
to rise. This could be
paradise.’” I really like that
message. Don’t run away from the
problems, and say
that life is better someplace else. Life
is better right here—this could be paradise, if we want it to be. When people are running away from the
problems as she was in the song, it is usually a cry for help. / The
group The
Fray and Katy Perry make up this triple play with them, and they start
it off,
a great song and video to study from their latest album “Mylo
Xyloto” (and they
said there is no particular meaning of the title), the group is
Coldplay, and
their song “Paradise”, current music on MATT.
(triple)
PARADISE / Coldplay
HEARTBEAT /
The Fray
THE ONE THAT
GOT AWAY / Katy Perry
Part 9
MATT presenting Ms. Katy Perry with
her current song, “The One That Got Away”, our theme last
week when we spoke
about “The Things That Should Be Said”.
It is the latest song from her album
“Teenage Dream”. It is a song
of a breakup again—so often sung
about in these songs, and is sung with particularly poignant words. It has an excellent video connected with it
that I would encourage you to watch on YouTube.
In the song, the woman of the
relationship is recalling what the early
romance was all about and how she misses it now. “In
another life,” the lady of the
relationship sings, “I would be your girl.
We’d keep all our promises, be us
against the world. In another life, I
would make you stay so I
don’t have to say you were the one that got away.
All this money can’t buy me a time
machine. It can’t replace you with a
million rings. I shoulda told you what
you meant to me, ‘cause now I paid the price.”
She has lost him forever, and the video
shows that in a striking
way. As we think of “Responding to a
Cry
for Help,” our theme today, she is crying out for help, but
you’re not sure
from the song whether he will respond or not.
Good song and video to study.
Before her, we heard current music
from The Fray,
and their song “Heartbeat” from their yet to be released
album “Scars and
Stories”. They use a phrase that can
lead us to an understanding of what love is, I believe.
They sing in the
refrain: “If you love somebody, love them all the same.” They explain it: “You got a fire and
it’s
burning in the rain; thought it went out, but it’s burning just
the same. And you don’t look back,
not for anything,
‘cause if you love someone, you love them all the same. Oh I feel your heartbeat, and you’re
coming
around.” To me, it says that if you
love
someone, then you have to mean it all the time—love them all the
same, they
sing. It fits into our theme this morning
easily
since you can look at all love relationships to be cries for help in
one sense
or another, and the way to respond to it is to love each other
completely, all
the same.
I really get into these songs
because their messages are such that they can help our lives. No wonder I keep telling you to enjoy the
music—that’s just fine—but to listen to the message
and learn from it. Our next 30 minutes of
music and message will
explore our theme of “Responding to a Cry for Help” with
the top 3 songs of
meaning of 2009 and the top 3 of our day right now.
May I take you to break with this
thought: it
comes from an author by the name of A. J. Kitt, and you’ve
probably heard it
before, but it’s really very good: “You have no control
over what the other guy
does. You only have control over what
you do.” And anyone who
wants to respond to a cry for help will realize that.
I’m Fr. Mike Scully, listen to
these words of
wisdom, and then I hope you come back for more.
COMMERCIAL BREAK
Part 10
This is “Message at the
Top”, on Mix
103. Thank you for joining us this
morning. I am Fr. Mike Scully, and our
show gives you top 10 songs of today and yesterday along with their
meanings. And what is amazing about them
is that with a little bit of help, those songs can actually teach us
something
about ourselves and about our behavior.
With that in mind, we keep imploring you
to enjoy the music AND listen
to the message. The topic of our show
today came from the group Kings of Leon and their song “Use
Somebody”, the
number 5 song of meaning of 2009.
And let’s
stay in that year and give you the top 3 songs of meaning of 2009 from
Pink,
The Fray and Nickelback, all three absolutely great songs, as one would
guess
since MATT made them the top 3 songs of meaning of that year.
First to Pink and a real thought-provoking
song. “I don’t wanna be the girl who
laughs the loudest,” she begins her song here, “or the girl
who never wants to
be alone. The sun is blinding, I stayed
up again. Oh, I am finding that’s not
the way I want my story to end. I’m safe
up high, nothing can touch me, but why do I feel this party’s
over? How do I feel this good sober?” The key idea is
that
drinking and getting high is not the way the person in the song wants
her story
to end, namely having a good time with all kinds of pleasure-seeking
that ends
in emptiness.
My
comment on my website www.frmikescully.com is this: “Jesus was as human
as you and I are human. Therefore he
experienced pain, and he was able
to experience the pleasure of overcoming the pain to feel better. At one time, when he was tempted, he was
hungry, and the tempter suggested to him that he experience the
pleasure of
being satisfied by doing what he was capable of doing. Jesus
must have considered what the devil
said, but rejected it because he knew, and perhaps wanted to teach us,
that
there was more to life than pleasure.
“It
has been reported that the reason for Pink's song ‘Sober’
came from a party
that she hosted, a party in which there was a lot of drinking and fun,
but the
song becomes philosophical, asking the question in effect: ‘How
do I feel good
with just me, without anything else to lean on?’ And,
in particular, the song deals with the
question of why we have to get high in order to feel good. That is, why is it that we feel good in life
only because of some chemical substance that we place in our bodies?
“It
is a good question. Why can’t we
enjoy
what God has given us and be happy with who we are and the situation of
living?
Yes, there will be
moments of pain, but
is it not true that we can be happy that we are alive, and it is great
to be
that way? It turns out to be the way to
live our story well...and the way to end our story.
“Jesus
no doubt wanted to eat the bread that he could have made from the
stones, but
he chose not to because God's Word was enough for him. As you and I
work
with what we have in our lives, and want what is pleasurable, perhaps
one of
our determining thoughts must be that there is more to life than
pleasure, and
controlling some pleasure might be a way to a better life.”
In
terms of our theme today, the person in the song is crying out for
help, and
hopefully someone will respond to her. From
her album “Funhouse,” this is Pink, “Sober”,
number 3 of all the songs of
meaning of 2009 on MATT.
(triple) SOBER /
Pink
YOU FOUND ME
/ The Fray
IF TODAY WAS
YOUR LAST DAY / Nickelback
Part 11
Likewise a 10+ category song of
meaning, as you would guess for the number 1 song of meaning of 2009 in
MATT’s
opinion from Nickelback. It comes
from their CD “Dark Horse” and their song: “If Today
Was Your Last Day”. They sing:
“My best friend
gave me the best advice. He said each
day’s a gift and not a given right; leave no stone unturned,
leave your fears
behind, and try to take the path less traveled by.
That first step you take is the longest
stride. If today was your last day and
tomorrow was too late, could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your
last,
leave old pictures in the past? Donate
every dime you had, if today was your last day?
What if today was your last day?”
His advice: “Do whatever it takes,
‘cause you can’t rewind a moment in
this life. Let nothing stand in your
way, ‘cause the hands of time are never on your side.” Super stuff here, and tying it into our theme
today, every one of us is crying for help in one way or another, and if
we
learn to live well each day that we live, we will be responding to our
cries. Super song.
Before
them, likewise an incredible song that MATT places as a 10+ category
song of
meaning, at number 2 of all the songs of meaning of 2009, The Fray,
from their self-named album, and their song “You Found Me”. The song says that God is going to find us,
and will
help us out of the situations that we are in, making us be the type of
people
that we should be. They begin their song,
“I found God on the corner of First and Amistad,
all alone, smoking his last cigarette. I
said, ‘Where you been?’ He
said, ‘Ask
anything.’” / And so the person in the song asks,
“Where were you when everything
was falling apart? All my days were
spent by the telephone. It never rang,
and all I needed was a call.” But,
he
sings, “Lost and insecure, you found me lyin’ on the floor,
surrounded. Why’d you have to wait? Where were you? Just
a little late, you found me.” God
will find us, no matter what the
circumstances. In terms of our theme
today, the song is humankind’s cry for help, and the faith that
God will
respond.
And, coming back to today, January
29, 2012, let’s go to the top 3 songs right now, beginning with
number 3 from
Mr. Gavin DeGraw. The man in the
relationship is remembering when the lady in the relationship was with
him, and
it is a good memory, but she is no longer there, and so the song is
what
happens when there is a recent breakup.
He begins the song,
“Dreams—that’s where I have to go to see your
beautiful face anymore. If you ask me
how I’m doing, I would say I’m doing just fine.
I would lie and say that you’re
not on my mind, but I go out and I sit
down at a table set for two, and finally I’m forced to face the
truth—no matter
what I say, I’m not over you.” It
is a
very painful time in the person in the song’s love life, and
you’re not sure
they will ever be together again. It is
a cry for help from his point of view, our theme today, and
you’re not really
sure that his fiancée will respond or not—as I say very
painful. From his latest album
“Sweeter,” Gavin DeGraw
here, number 3 right now on our countdown, “Not Over You”
on MATT.
(double)
3 NOT OVER
YOU / Gavin DeGraw
2
STEREO HEARTS / Gym Class Heroes f/ Adam Levine
Part 12
At number 2 today, that was the
group Gym Class Heroes and singing with them is Adam Levine of Maroon
5, from
Gym Class Heroes’ album “The Papercut Chronciles 2”,
and their song “Stereo Hearts”
on MATT. The refrain of their song is
this: “My heart’s a stereo. It
beats for
you, so listen close, hear my thoughts in every note; make me your
radio, and
turn me up when you feel low. The melody
was meant for you; just sing along to my stereo.”
I think that they are clever lyrics
reflecting a situation in which the man in the relationship experienced
some
difficult times with past love relationships.
Now, as he sings, “Thought love
was dead; now, you’re changing my
mind.” So, a love song that is a
pretty
good way of saying that he loves his girlfriend. As
we have been saying with these love songs
today, often the song is a cry for help, as is the case here. You’re not sure that she will respond or
not,
and that is always a very painful situation.
And the number 1 song for nine weeks
in a row is from Ms. Colbie Caillat from her album “All of
You”
and her song “Brighter Than the Sun”. It
is a happy song of love, a song of how love has
affected the woman in the relationship.
“I swear you hit me like a
vision,” she sings the thoughts of the lady,
“I wasn’t expecting, but who am I to tell fate where
it’s supposed to go with
it. Oh, this is how it starts, lightning
strikes the heart. It goes off like a
gun, brighter than the sun. Oh, we could
be the stars, falling from the sky, shining how we want, brighter than
the
sun.” So, the great feelings of
love,
and it is having a profound effect on her.
In this case, as we consider our theme
of “Responding to a Cry for
Help,” her cry for help in romantic love has been responded to,
it seems, and
it is a very happy situation. It’s
always good to have happy positive songs to listen to, I believe.
And there you have it—the top 10
songs of our land as of this date of the last Sunday of January, 2012. We have looked at our songs from a point of
view of people who need help and ask for it.
My wish is that each of us will take the
time to listen to people who
cry for help. And if we are the ones who
are asking for help—listen to the person that will give it to you. / My thanks to our producers of “Message
at
the Top,” and to the staff here at Mix 103.
Thank you for being with us
today. My thanks also to our producers and
sponsors
especially Thomas More Prep-Marian
High School
in Hays, Hays Car and Truck
Alignment, and Holy
Family
Elementary School
in Hays.
If you want to contact me for any
reason, my email address is frmikescully@yahoo.com.
My website where you can find a
transcript of
the show and meditations on the music we play here and some great
movies is www.frmikescully.com.
My closing thought for you comes from an
American author by the name of Bern Williams: “There was never a
night or a
problem that could defeat sunrise or hope.”
If we need help, we can and will find it. You bet!
Our number 1 song is “Brighter
Than the Sun”
from Colbie Caillat from her album named “All of You”, and
as you listen to it, may I remind you to hold a good thought. My name is Fr. Mike Scully.
Peace to you, and be good!
1 BRIGHTER THAN THE SUN / Colbie
Caillat
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Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin
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