MEDIA PRESENTATION
Movie: "The Amazing Spider-Man" -- beginning session
THE STRESS OF LIVING
The Gospel LUKE 3:21-22
After all the people had been baptized and Jesus also had been baptized and was praying, heaven was opened and the Holy Spirit descended upon him in bodily form like a dove. And a voice came from heaven, "You are my beloved Son; with you I am well pleased."   
Gospelthink: The Holy Spirit was always part of my life, as yours. Do I accept the things that happen as the work of the Holy Spirit?
The movie "The Amazing Spider-Man" is obviously fantasy, but the pains of growing up for Peter Parker and the stress of newly found abilities is not fantasy. The movie spends a significant amount of time developing Peter Parker's family life, showing that a true knowledge of one's past often is difficult to integrate into mature living. Peter Parker shows his immature tendencies when he discovers his new powers by his behavior of "showing off" or "getting even" as his Uncle Ben reminds him. But he also manifests some characteristics of gaining maturity that every young person must learn in order to grow well. He had to develop the skills of learning about romantic love with his girlfriend. He had to learn how to deal with people who did not agree with him or like him. But most of all, he had to deal with the stress of developing an understanding of what his parents, especially his father, were like, and what it meant for him to live with a foster mother and father. Even Spider-Man had to learn the ins and outs of maturity.
Anyone who reads the Gospels immediately understands that prayer was an important part in Jesus' life. From the very first moment of his public ministry at his Baptism until the closing minutes of his life during the crucifixion, Jesus prayed constantly to his Father. As a man, he knew that he simply had to have the assurance and direction of God the Father. He needed it because he knew only too well what the stress of his proposed way of life could cause. Prayer was his means of managing his stress.

There is stress involved in any life. Studying the early life of Peter Parker in the movie "The Amazing Spider-Man," we understand not only the stress of his newly-found abilities, but also the stress of growing out of teenage thinking into the maturity of day-to-day living. Peter Parker had to grow up, and he had to grow up with the knowledge that his family had caused certain situations that were not easy to understand.

No matter how old we are, we must grow. We do not have the comic-book gifts and problems that Peter Parker had, but we all have challenges in our growth. Those challenges exist when we are young growing out of immaturity, and they exist for an adult growing into additional responsibilities. Such growth always causes stress because we constantly must learn how to manage what has happened whether they are caused by us or not.

Managing the stress is one of the secrets of maturity. Jesus teaches us to pray when we are under stress. We do not know from the movie whether Peter Parker prayed or not, but we know that he certainly would have benefited from the action. His stress level could have been measurably reduced simply by turning things over to God. Christians must realize more and more that turning problems over to God while doing the best they can in any situation will relieve the stress connected with growing up well. 
PRAYER
Good and gracious God, your Son often communicated with you. It was his means of managing the difficulties of his human life. Give us the grace to learn from him, and help us manage the stress that comes with our own lives by turning to you. Be with us, we pray. 
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GUIDE FOR CLASSROOM PRESENTATION AND PERSONAL ENRICHMENT

Theme: One of the signs of maturity is the ability to manage the stress that comes with growing up. 
 
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
(session: approximately 63 minutes)
1. What scene during this session of the movie is most striking? Why?
2. The evangelist Luke in particular presents Jesus praying at significant times in his life. Project: outline these occasions and determine Jesus' reasoning.  See New American Bible, footnote for Luke 3:21-22.
3. In your opinion, do Christians pray as much as they should? Yes or no and why?
4. What is your understanding of the Holy Spirit? See Catechism of the Catholic Church, second edition, numbers 683-688.
5. What are the signs that a person is "growing up" well?
6. The meditation suggests "prayer" as a means of managing stress. In what way does prayer manage stress?
7. What are some other ways that a mature person manages stress?
8. Speaking practically, what must we do in order to "turn our problems over to God"?
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. Should Peter's parents have tried to explain to their young son why they were leaving? Yes or no and why?
10. Scene analysis: the PDA (public display of affection in the high school). Should high schools have rules against PDA? Yes or no and why?
11. Scene analysis: Even before Peter becomes "Spider-Man," he shows that he will not participate in the evil of bullying another student. Why is "bullying" such a problem in the schools of our world?
12. Dialogue analysis: Dr. Connors says that he is working "on creating a world without weakness." Why is such a desire impossible?
13. Analysis: Peter's uncle points out that Peter is merely "getting even" at another student. Why is "getting even" wrong?
14. Scene analysis: Peter storms away from his foster parents, an action which many teens display when they disagree with adults. What is the fundamental cause of such teenage actions?
15. Scene analysis: Peter's classmates, even his "enemies" show him sympathy at the loss of his foster father. What should you do to help another student who has lost someone close to him/her?
16. Scene analysis: Why did Peter Parker choose to use a "spider" outfit to conceal his identity?
17. Scene analysis: Peter as "Spider-Man" enjoys his newly-found powers. Is there anything harmful in such celebrating? When does a person's "celebration tactics" become harmful? 

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