ACCEPTING THE DIFFICULT
The Gospel MATTHEW 27:22-26
Pilate said to them, “Then what shall I do with Jesus called Messiah?” They all said, “Let him be crucified!” But he said, “Why? What evil has he done?” They only shouted the louder, “Let him be crucified!” When Pilate saw that he was not succeeding at all, but that a riot was breaking out instead, he took water and washed his hands in the sight of the crowd, saying, “I am innocent of this man’s blood.  Look to it yourselves.” And the whole people said in reply, “His blood be upon us and upon our children.” Then he released Barabbas to them, but after he had Jesus scourged, he handed him over to be crucified. 
The Media                            "Signs" beginning session
We tend to avoid difficult situations. In the movie, “Signs,” Graham Hess, an ordained Episcopalian priest, had accepted his Church’s teaching about evil and suffering. Understanding the theology that God sometimes works even together with intense pain, he never thought that it would be personal. So, when it happened, he simply avoided the difficult, and denied God. At the same time, signs were occurring all around him of something he did not want in the outside world. Together with the other people of his small county, he chose once again the easy path of denying what the signs meant.
Pilate knew that Jesus was innocent. He could not find even one legitimate charge that would allow Jesus to be scourged, let alone condemned to death. But he also could hear the angry mob in front of him. He knew that his own position as Roman procurator might be in jeopardy. Desiring a compromise, they would not allow it. He should have simply said, "Since I do not find any evil that this man has done, I will release him and suffer the consequences." But, even though it was the right thing, he could not do it. Washing his hands, trying to wash his conscience, he avoided the difficult decision.

Every counselor in the world tells us to face the difficult situations. But instead, we often run. We try to avoid. We choose the easier route, the painless path. But in the end, such a path usually is not the best. We end up with even more pain than we had already. To be psychologically and spiritually healthy, we must understand the painful things that happen to us. We must confront them, asking what they mean, how we should act, and perhaps even be prepared to change our opinions as a result.                  
THOUGHT
What are the principal excuses that we use to avoid difficult situations? 
 
PRAYER
Good and gracious God, your Son was condemned to death because human beings refused to accept the difficult things that should have been done. Give us the grace to face the difficulties of life, and change if we have to. Be with us, we pray.

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Fr. Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin Province of Mid-America