IN OVER OUR HEADS
The Gospel LUKE 18:35-43
Now as Jesus approached Jericho a blind man was sitting by the roadside begging, and hearing a crowd going by, he inquired what was happening. They told him, “Jesus of Nazareth is passing by.” He shouted, “Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me!” The people walking in front rebuked him, telling him to be silent, but he kept calling out all the more, “Son of David, have pity on me!” Then Jesus stopped and ordered that he be brought to him; and when he came near, Jesus asked him, “What do you want me to do for you?” He replied, “Lord, please let me see.” Jesus told him, “Have sight; your faith has saved you.” He immediately received his sight and followed him, giving glory to God. When they saw this, all the people gave praise to God.    
The Media                          "Over My Head (Cable Car)" The Fray
"I never knew that everything was falling through, that everyone I knew was waiting on a cue to turn and run when all I needed was the truth. But that’s how it’s got to be: it’s coming down to nothing more than apathy, I’d rather run the other way than stay and see the smoke, and who’s still standing when it clears. Everyone knows I’m in over my head, with eight seconds left in overtime, she’s on your mind. Let’s rearrange, I wish you were a stranger I could disengage, say that we agree and then never change, soften a bit until we all just get along."
There are many things that we can "get into" too much: moving too quickly into a love relationship which is the situation of The Fray’s song, "Over My Head (Cable Car)"; or we can get too involved in someone else’s life; or we put ourselves into a situation that we cannot get out of easily; or we become overwhelmed with too many things going on in our lives. What do we do in those cases? The song merely states the problem and does not give an answer.

In fact, there are many answers, but one of them probably makes more sense than any other. The blind beggar of Luke’s Gospel gives it to us: you cry out to someone you trust. He trusted this Jesus that he had heard about. He reasoned that Jesus would listen to him, and give him some help. It is interesting that he does not shout to be healed; all he asks for is "pity." Jesus, as usual  with sincere people, gave him the help he needed.

We should talk to someone we trust when we are in "over our heads." The person of faith will turn to sincere prayer to God through Jesus, as the blind beggar did; but our prayer is not only for the talking that should take place; we should talk to a best friend, to a parent, a religious minister, to someone we trust completely. Being in "over our heads" or being overwhelmed with a problem is a situation that most people experience in their lives in one form or another, and talking it out with someone that we trust will always be a good solution. 
                      
THOUGHT
What are the areas of our lives in which we get in "over our heads"? 
 
PRAYER
Good and gracious God, because we are human beings, we get ourselves into situations that are too much for us, situations in which we need help. Give us the grace to turn to you at those times, and the help to choose people in the world to talk to. Be with us, we pray.

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Fr. Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin Province of Mid-America