THE NEED FOR OTHERS
The Gospel MATTHEW 14:22-33
Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and precede him to the other side.... Meanwhile the boat, already a few miles offshore, was being tossed about by the waves, for the wind was against it. During the fourth watch of the night, he came toward them, walking on the sea. When the disciples saw him walking on the sea they were terrified. “It is a ghost,” they said, and they cried out in fear. At once Jesus spoke to them, “Take courage, it is I; do not be afraid.” Peter said to him in reply, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water.” He said, “Come.” Peter got out of the boat and began to walk on the water toward Jesus. But when he saw how strong the wind was he became frightened; and beginning to sink, he cried out, “Lord, save me!” Immediately Jesus stretched out his hand and caught him, and said to him, “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?” After they got into the boat, the wind died down. Those who were in the boat did him homage, saying, “Truly, you are the Son of God.”    
The Media             "Finding Nemo" final session
In the movie “Finding Nemo,” Marlin, the father of Nemo came to understand his need for others as he tried to find his son, accepting even the help of absent-minded Dory. Likewise Nemo himself had to accept the help of his tank-hood friends and eventually Dory who was always willing to help, even if it meant that she might complicate issues more than aid them. The point is made, however, that both Marlin and Nemo needed the help of others to do what they wanted to do. 
Peter the apostle liked to think that he could do things alone. Even as he boldly asked Jesus for permission to walk on the water to him, Peter felt that he really could do it by himself. Only when he began to realize that the dangers of the sea were about to overpower him did he reach out to Jesus, crying “Lord, save me!” Jesus simply replied to him that he had to become a person of faith who depended on others.

We need others. People who believe that they do not need others often end up selfish and ego-centered in their approach, sometimes using others for their own good. Children need parents, young adults need their parents and friends, adults need the help of other adults. The person who understands this will develop an attitude of concern and thankfulness toward everyone they meet because other people really are important.

Whether we are involved in making a living, or preparing for it, other people are necessary for our existence. If we manage to comprehend such a simple fact, we will develop an attitude of living that results in true maturity.
                        
THOUGHT
What is the ultimate reason why we need other people?
 
PRAYER
Good and gracious God, we have the example of the apostles to teach us that we need Jesus in our lives, and we also need others. Help us be thankful to the people who help us, and give us the grace to always understand the need we have for others. Be with us, we pray.

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Fr. Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin Province of Mid-America