BETTER IN TIME
The Gospel MATTHEW 10:17-22
[Jesus said:] "Beware of people, for they will hand you over to courts and scourge you in their synagogues, and you will be led before governors and kings for my sake as a witness before them and the pagans. When they hand you over, do not worry about how you are to speak or what you are to say. You will be given at that moment what you are to say. For it will not be you who speak but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you. Brother will hand over brother to death, and the father his child; children will rise up against parents and have them put to death. You will be hated by all because of my name, but whoever endures to the end will be saved."
The Media               "Better in Time" Leona Lewis
"It’s been the longest winter without you. I didn’t know where to turn to. Somehow I can’t forget you after all we’ve been through. Thought I couldn’t live without you. It’s gonna hurt when it heals too. It’ll all get better in time, and even though I really love you, I’m gonna smile 'cause I deserve to. It’ll all get better in time. Since there’s no more you and me, it’s time I let you go so I can be free, and live my life how it should be." 
Jesus spoke to his Apostles as they set out to become his missionaries, telling them to prepare the cities to receive him when he came to preach. He warns them that there will be pain, and as the evangelist Matthew had discovered by the time he wrote his Gospel late in the first century, there was indeed pain--people were hurt, families were torn apart. Speaking Jesus' name could mean dissension and even death. But Jesus counsels his Apostles to "endure," knowing that things will be better in time, and there will even be eternal salvation in the end.

Jesus' words are not only good for the spiritual life, but they are good for day-to-day living as well. In her song "Better in Time," Leona Lewis sings of a lady who is in pain, but she is mature enough to know that she must "endure," or as she says, she's going to smile and live her life as it should be. She knows that all she has to do is to allow time to do some healing, and then things will be better.

Jesus' words and Leona Lewis' song speak one of the most important facts for young love and indeed for a mature life. When there is pain--and there will be pain in this imperfect world that we live in--we can get through it because it will all get better in time. Time heals. It may not feel like it at the moment of hurt because it feels as though life will disintegrate and it would be better not even to be alive. But, once we get through the first couple of days, or a week or two, life will begin to take on a different vision. Things really do get better in time, and if we manage to endure the moment, our lives will be able to function again, and we will be able to live life, as Leona Lewis sings, the way "it should be."

THOUGHT
What is the best way to help someone who is going through immense mental pain?
 
PRAYER
Good and gracious God, there is pain in our lives because our world is not a perfect world. We hurt ourselves, we hurt others, things happen that we wish would be otherwise. Your Son counsels us to endure because life will be better in time. Give us the grace to follow his advice. Be with us, we pray. 

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Fr. Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin Province of Mid-America