September 29

      [media presentation below]

GospelThink

Sunday, September 29, Twenty-sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

MARK 9:38-43,45,47-48
Those Not Like Us

 

Prayerthoughts

a. Jesus is addressed as “teacher.” What has been the most important teaching of Jesus lately in my life?

 

b. The disciples are manifesting a sense of “exclusivity.” Do I feel the desire to exclude others from my life because of my own selfishness?

 

c. How can I be more “open” to people?

 

d. Is there a way right now in which I can help some people a little more?

 

e. Jesus points out the possibility of causing harm “to these little ones.” As I study my lifestyle, can any of it be interpreted as “scandalous”?

 

f. Jesus uses exaggeration to bring home a point, this making his thought extremely important, saying that we must not sin. Have I acknowledged my sinfulness enough?

 

g. My prayerthoughts…

                           Today, I will read the letter of James, chapter 5

and write an important thought from it.

Some Thoughts on the Liturgy

 

PREJUDICE AND THE CHRISTIAN

 

+ Perhaps some of your Protestant friends have told you this story or one like it:

             - the Methodist man had lived a good life and had gone to heaven

                           - greeted by a holy man who was evidently in charge

                                        - and he was received very well

                           - the holy man showed him around the heavenly chambers

                                        - everywhere there was joy, people quite happy with one another

                                        - evidently a place where he wanted to be

                                                     - and he was glad that he had tried to live a good life

                           - he and the holy man came to a large room with locked door

                                        - holy man said: “we have to be careful here as we walk in front of this door”

                                                     - and so they were, tiptoed past the door

                                                     - on the other side, the Methodist man asked the holy man why they had to be so careful around that room

                           - holy man replied: “Oh, that room contains all the Catholics and they think that they are the only ones up here.”

 

+ One of the virtues of the Catholic Church of the past has not been “being open to other religions”

             - all you have to do is study a little history to see it

                           - and it is not the way it should be, as we generalize from our first reading and Gospel today

                                        - Moses and Jesus were both leading those who were learning from them away from closed-mindedness and a closed-in type of thinking

                                                     - both saying that the Lord’s spirit is at work in others as well as themselves

             - and the Lord’s spirit is saying that everyone is important, and that if you are a Christian, a real Christian, you will realize that

 

+ The Second Vatican Council in the middle 60’s released a document called the “Pastoral Constitution of the Church in the Modern World”

             - chapter 2 is entitled “The Community of People” and part of it is this:

             “This council lays stress on reverence for all; everyone must consider his/her every neighbor without exception as another self. … Respect and love ought to be extended … to those who think or act differently than we do in social, political and religious matters, too.  In fact, the more deeply we come to understand their ways of thinking through … courtesy and love, the more easily will we be able to enter into dialogue with them.” (# 2, nos. 27, 28)

                           - if we ever had a tendency to be closed-minded to others, the Council clearly states what our doctrine should be

 

+ In essence, the Council was talking about prejudice

             - we really should study our possible closed-mindedness and our in-born prejudices

             - there are a couple of things that make prejudice a fault, but the one we should be aware of more than any other perhaps is this:

                           - prejudice implies a kind of permanence, an unwillingness or inability to change our attitudes – that is real closed-mindedness

                                        - as long as people are not willing or able to listen to raw evidence and change their minds when properly challenged to do so, they are closed-minded

             - one easily sees this type of attitude when conversation turns to certain subjects – like religion, politics, family, or why other people do what they do

                           - what happens is that we have made up our minds before we have studied the facts

                                        - sometimes this is ridiculous and harmless: the people who believe that Elvis Presley is really alive or that the end of the world will happen in a couple weeks because they think the Bible says so

                                        - but sometimes it is downright sinful in terms of a Christian perspective

                                                     - prejudice is sinful because we are not extending love and understanding to those who think or act differently than we do in social, political and religious matters, as the Council directs us to do

 

+ Jesus goes into exaggeration to hammer this point home in the Gospel:

             - he is talking about causing others to sin

                           - and says cut your hand or foot off, gouge your eye out before you mislead another, before you hurt another by your prejudices

                           - in essence, consider what you do and say—your prejudices—and be courageous in getting rid of them if they are sinful

 

+ Snoopy of Peanuts fame once said quite proudly: “I’m open as long as you agree with me”

             - Jesus calls us to open-mindedness today

                           - to study our attitudes toward life and especially toward others

                           - to see whether or not we may be prejudiced and not even be aware of it.

 

 

 

MEDIA PRESENTATION

Song: "Someone You Loved" -- Lewis Capaldi

I NEED SOMEBODY WHO LOVES

 

The Gospel

MATTHEW 26:3-5

Then Judas, his betrayer, seeing that Jesus had been condemned, deeply regretted what he had done. He returned the thirty pieces of silver to the chief priests and elders, saying, "I have sinned in betraying innocent blood." They said, "What is that to us? Look to it yourself." Flinging the money into the temple, he departed and went off and hanged himself.

Gospelthink: Judas realized what he had done, but did not know how to repent. The Lord wants me to repent and show that repentance while working with the Spirit.

"I'm going under, and this time I fear there's no one to save me. This all or nothing really got a way of driving me crazy. I need somebody to heal, somebody to know, somebody to have, somebody to hold. I guess I kinda liked the way you numbed all the pain. Now the day bleeds into nightfall. And you're not here to get me through it all. I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug. I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved." 

Suicide is always a symptom of something else, a permanent solution, to be sure, but really only a symptom that something is wrong with a person's thinking. In the Gospel passage as we study Judas, the problem was that his thinking was exactly as his accusers counseled him to do--he was to look for a solution to the problem by looking to it himself. Alone, he could not solve the problem he was experiencing. He needed someone else, and he had betrayed the very person he needed.

The relationship of Jesus and Judas was one based on trust. When Judas felt that he could not trust anymore, then he had to leave the relationship. A breakup of a romantic relationship in modern-day living is somewhat comparable to the feelings of Judas and Jesus in the first century. People in a breakup need help and when they try to go it alone, they simply say, as in Lewis Capaldi's song "Someone You Loved," "I need somebody."

Of course, in the song, the one who is speaking about the relationship that has ceased thinks that the someone they need is the person who is breaking up with him. In reality, he needs someone else, a person to talk to, a counselor, indeed, his God to help him through the pain. If such a person does not find it, the results can be a permanent answer to a merely temporary problem. In the situation of the Gospel, Judas did need the person with whom he was ceasing the relationship.

The lesson for us is relatively easy to speak, but difficult to carry out. If we choose to love and to give of ourselves to someone, sometimes another relationship will form, and we will have to cease the one we originally chose. In other words, there will be a break-up.  And we do need someone who can help us in some way, a friend, a counselor, our God, someone we can talk to.
        

PRAYER

Good and gracious God, it is our faith that we can talk to you anytime in prayer. Help us understand that in our lives, there will be times when we absolutely must turn to you in prayer, and at the same time be open to others asking for their help. Be with us, we pray.

 

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GUIDE FOR CLASSROOM PRESENTATION AND PERSONAL ENRICHMENT

Theme: Romantic breakups are never easy and must treated with caution.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1What does the song "Someone You Loved" teach young people?
2. Knowing what you know about Judas, in your opinion, how would you describe Judas' personality?
3. What is the principal cause of a romantic breakup in our society?
4. In your opinion, what is the principal cause of suicide among young people?
5. How would you describe "despair" in our world?
6. In our world, who should we turn to in order to help us through a situation that brings about despair?
7. Why is revenge not a good solution to a romantic breakup? 

 

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Fr. Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin Province of Mid-America