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JOHN 2:1-11
On the third day there was a wedding in Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the wedding. When the wine ran short, the mother of Jesus said to him, “They have no wine.” And Jesus said to her, “Woman, how does your concern affect me? My hour has not yet come.” His mother said to the servers, “Do whatever he tells you.” Now there were six stone water jars there for Jewish ceremonial washings, each holding twenty to thirty gallons. Jesus told them, “Fill the jars with water.” So they filled them to the brim. Then he told them, “Draw some out now and take it to the headwaiter.” So they took it. And when the headwaiter tasted the water that had become wine, without knowing where it came from (although the servers who had drawn the water knew), the headwaiter called the bridegroom and said to him, “Everyone serves good wine first, and then when people have drunk freely, an interior one; but you have kept the good wine until now.” Jesus did this as the beginning of his signs in Cana in Galilee and so revealed his glory, and his disciples began to believe in him. |
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Gospelthink: Jesus followed the advice of his mother. |
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“I know you wanted me to stay, but I can't ignore the crazy visions of me in LA. I heard that there's a special place. I'm having wicked dreams of leaving Tennessee. Oh, Santa Monica, I swear it's calling me. Won't make my mama proud. It's gonna cause a scene. She sees her baby girl, I know she's gonna scream--what have you done. You're a pink pony girl and you dance at the club. Oh mama, I'm just having fun on the stage in my heels. It's where I belong down at the Pink Pony Club.” |
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It
is clear from the Scriptures that Jesus had a special
relationship with his mother, and by extension, one would
suppose, a similar relationship with his father, although his
father is not present in his public ministry. His mother was
present, and according to the Scriptures, was present during
significant moments in Jesus’s
life. Taking the situation into the twenty-first century, and in particular, Jesus’s relationship with his mother can inspire some serious thinking with any song that calls for the advice of people close to us. Take Chappell Roan’s song “Pink Pony Club.” The daughter is at a place in her life where she must make her own decisions, and her mother has some rather strong feelings about it. Her mother doesn’t want the daughter to waste away her life—as she sees it—as a dancer at a party club, especially when it would take the daughter a significant distance away from family. Who is correct? Perhaps the daughter has a special gift as a dancer and is merely beginning a life that will involve dancing as a serious vocation. Certainly the mother knows her daughter and feels responsible as she makes a momentous decision. Whatever the case, the lesson we can learn from the song is two-fold. One, a young person will have to make a decision that will advance her life at some point in her life. And two, the mother is a person who can help the daughter make that decision. If emotions are not involved, the daughter might be able to make a decision that is guided by her mother. The problem, as with most situations of doing something relatively momentous, emotions will run high, and the decision must be made together with how everyone feels. And that is never easy. |
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PRAYER Good and gracious God, our journey on earth together with the directions we could go are varied. Help us realize that we will always have advice from especially our parents, as we decide a future for ourselves. Be with us, we pray. |
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2. Should the devotion in honor of Mary the mother of Jesus be stronger than it is right now? 3. How much advice should parents of a young person give as the young person is deciding to leave from home? 4. Should parents “approve” their children’s marriages? 5. Should parents “approve” their children’s “life-style” when the child is 21? Yes or no and why? 6. In making a “momentous” decision, what should the child of a family keep in mind? |
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Capuchin Province of Mid-America |