March 2

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 GospelThink

Sunday, March 2, Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time

LUKE 6:39-45

Looking at my attitude toward others

Prayerthoughts

a. There are some people who are blind to God’s actions in their lives. Sometimes I question how God is acting in my life. What are some times in which I questioned how God was acting? Perhaps a prayer of faith in God for those times should be spoken at this time.

b. What does the phrase “fully trained” imply for the spiritual life?

--c. How much do I judge others? Do I take the time to pray for them when I know that I am judging them?

d. As I study my thinking when I judge others, what primarily am I judging them about? Why?

e. The Lord comparing me to a tree says that I should be bearing good fruit, that is good virtues. What are the virtues that I should be improving?

f. “From the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.” Judging from my speech yesterday, what did it show about what I considered important? (This is the subject of the meditation today.)

g. My prayerthoughts…

Today I will spend some time of quiet discerning on what is truly important in life.



Some Thoughts on the Liturgy

THE GUIDE, THE BEAM AND THE TREE

+ Many of you have had the opportunity of going to places for a reunion

- places and situations of a number of years ago, where you get together with people you were with at that time, and re-live memories

- we have a group of people who are getting together our eighth grade class at St. Francis of Assisi school in St. Albans, WV

- and as I have been thinking about that, and getting together with some of the people

- we talk—as we all do—about those who were in authority over us

- in particular with this group, we talk about the experience of Catholic school in the 50’s, with the religious sisters in particular who had a unique brand of discipline

- many of you can identify with that

- actually I had it made because I had said to one of the sisters that I thought I might go to the seminary in the 9th grade—which I eventually did

- and that was all the good sisters needed to hear

- I was treated very well because of that

- even received the top religious award in my 8th grade which I didn’t deserve but acted like I did

- my sister was in the 6th grade at that time—same school, same last name, actually a lot nicer than me

- many of the religious sisters would bring up to her that I was so good and therefore she should be as good as I was

- that, of course, did not sit real well with her

- and I remember many of our “discussions” as children—and we recall this often

- she would end up saying something like “if you’re supposed to be so holy, how come you’re so mean” or words to that effect


+ Actually, it is a very good point

- how is it that Christians often have the ability to be fairly good in one aspect of their Christian life—often the worship aspect—here, going to church

- and not so good in other aspects

- we are so inconsistent at times

-our young people call it “hypocrisy”


+ Jesus seems to be aware of that possibility in today’s Gospel

- speaking to his disciples about some rather radical ways of living and teaching others to live that way

- actually what we have heard the last two previous Sunday Gospels have been very difficult words—all from chapter 6 of Luke’s Gospel

- here Jesus tells three stories—the stories of the guide, the beam and the tree—

- and says in effect: learn from these stories and learn to be consistent in your approach to following Jesus


+ The first story is that of the guide, and the question of the story is: what are you teaching others?

- we are all teachers in some way—if we are old enough to think, everyone of us is a teacher of those who are younger than us

- in particular, what are we teaching about religion?

- I believe one of the major philosophical sins of our world—that is an evil that brings forth other evils

- is the idea that religion is only for certain times, that there are two worlds in our lives, the one where we live, and then the one connected with God

- it is an insidious doctrine, and when we practice it, we teach those younger than we are that God is really not that important


+ The second story is that of the beam, and the question of the story is: how do you criticize others?

- we talk about others all the time

- it is part of life, it is what conversation is made of

- Jesus warns us about our own glass houses as we throw stones at others

- we can criticize constructively

- but often we do not

- we are simply tearing down others

- this is always so difficult because we usually don’t like the people that we are hurting by our speech and those people most probably are not going to change

- we are still going to dislike them, and the complaining can become chronic, and it becomes a pattern of existence almost

- someone—us—has to break the pattern

- I don’t know how true this is, but I read the other day that in one of the churches in the United States in the eighteenth century

-there was a parishioner called “the Pointer”

- when the preacher stressed a particular vice, it was “the Pointer's” job—he was paid to do it—to call out the name of a person present who was guilty of the vice

- many of us may have loved that assignment

- and if we would like the job, perhaps we should study our motivation


+ And the third story is the story of the tree, and the question of the story is: what are your actions showing to others?

- I have a priest friend who says that people are either basically good or basically bad

- and you can tell by how they act when they are upset

- the basically good person will generally allow the situation to pass without referring to it too much

- the basically bad person will consider the situation as if it were the worst problem in the world

- it is very interesting to study how we react to someone who is not driving the way we think they should for example


+ Lent begins on Wednesday

- it is a traditional time for us to ask some serious questions about our lives

- Jesus gives us three questions and stories in particular to study as we prepare:

- what are you teaching others?

- how do you criticize others?

- what are your actions showing to others

- the guide, the beam and the tree—good Lenten meditation.












MEDIA PRESENTATION

Song: “Circles” – Post Malone

IF IT IS JUST THE SEX



 

The Gospel  

MATTHEW 5:27-30

Matthew 5:27-29

You have heard that it was said, “You shall not commit adultery. But I say to you, everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one of you members than to have your whole body thrown into Gehenna. And if your right hand cause you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one of your members than to have your whole body go into Gehenna.  

 

Gospelthink: I give my strict rules about use of your sexuality. Am I following the Lord's rules?



Seasons change, and our love went cold, feed the flame ‘cause we can’t let go. Run away, but we’re running in circles. Run away. I dare you to do something, I’m waiting on you again, so I don’t take the blame. Let go, I got a feeling that it’s time to let go. I knew that this was doomed from the get-go. You thought that it was special. But it was just the sex though. I got a feeling that it’s time to let it go.”  

Jesus uses the art form of exaggeration when he feels strongly about something. In this passage, he wants people to know that the Christian virtue of purity involves staying away from all lust both before and after marriage.

One of the common faults of human beings, especially young human beings is the sin of "sex before marriage." The song "Circles" calls that to mind. The couple are going around in circles trying to work out their relationship, not knowing from one day to the next whether the love they have is real love or not. Post Malone states what may be the real problem when he sings, "But it was just the sex." The physical interaction they have feels good, but it may be the problem because feelings are only part of true love.

When a couple experiences each other in the physical act of love, there are no doubt good feelings that they have for each other. But such feelings do not constitute true love. Practically any human being can enjoy the physical feelings of sharing one another. It is an experience that God has created so that people will want to populate our earth, and therefore is something very good. But when it becomes an end in itself, It does not necessarily bring about true love.

The couple in Post Malone's song wanted true love. They wanted to experience the true feeling of what it means to give completely to each other, with a true understanding of choosing the other person for life. Instead, like many couples who are not married yet, they became physically involved long before they knew whether each had the true love necessary for a real commitment. And the involvement clouds their love reasoning.

Jesus knew the nature of human beings, and so he warned against lust. He knew that the physical could destroy any notion of true love. It is a lesson that people learning love must know.

PRAYER 

Good and gracious God, we want to understand the true meaning of love before marriage. Help us realize that the physical actions of love making can never be interpreted to be true love. Be with us, we pray.

 

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GUIDE FOR CLASSROOM PRESENTATION AND PERSONAL ENRICHMENT

Theme: The physical part of love should be part of true love.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. What does the song "Circles" teach young people?
2. Many people do not consider "premarital sex" to be sinful. In your opinion, why do they feel this way?
3 What are the signs of "true love" as one prepares for marriage?
4. In your opinion, does too much physical involvement before marriage interfere with the decision to marry? Yes or no and why?
5. In your opinion, do most people understand the true meaning of love at the time of marriage? Yes or no and why?

 

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Fr. Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin Province of Mid-America