January 25 

    [media presentation below]

GospelThink

Sunday, January 25, Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

MATTHEW 4:12-23

Helping People


Prayerthoughts

a. Jesus took up the “job” of John the Baptist. Studying my work right now, what are some areas that I can do better than I am?

b. What do I consider my hometown? Thinking of my life, what are some good things that I should remember from my hometown?

c. From the very beginning of the Gospel, Jesus preached repentance. In my own life, what am I most sorry for in the past? What should I work on most of all right now and into the future?

d. He went around helping people. Do I help the people in my life as much as I should?

e. Simon and Andrew, and James and John were fisherman, not of any privileged class. Do I find myself thinking in a superior way of others? How do I treat those whom I consider to be a “lower” class than I am?

f. The Lord calls Simon and Andrew and later James and John. In a sense we have been called to be a true follower of the Lord, no matter what our job may be. As I look at my life, what grade (A. B, C, D) would I give myself? How can it be better?

g. We are “fishers of men” in the sense that we influence others. What kind of an influence do I have on those closest to me?

h. The Gospels describe their following the Lord to be “at once” and “immediately.” Are there times in my life when I do not follow the Lord as quickly as I should?

I. My prayerthoughts…


Today, I will read 1 Corithinians 1:10-13,17 and write down an important line from it.

Some Thoughts on the Liturgy

OUR PERSONAL MISSION STATEMENT


As followers of Jesus Christ, we must be interested in what Jesus wanted us to do most of all. It might be contained in the first words that he speaks to his followers. In the Gospel today, we hear those first words as told by the evangelist Matthew. Matthew’s Gospel develops this way: the infancy section, John the Baptist’s ministry, Jesus’ Baptism, the temptations, the solemn introduction to the first words quoting Isaiah—our first reading (Isaiah 8:23-9:3), quoted again in the Gospel—and the first words to his followers, what may be the most important words of Jesus to us:

Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.


There are two parts to that statement of Jesus. One is the necessity to repent; the second is the whole idea of the kingdom of heaven. Both are important for the spiritual life.

- repent – meaning that I must be sorry and that I will change some things in my life that may not be so good;

- the Kingdom – Jesus’ favorite image, which according to the Catechism of the Catholic Church is not only the final destination of Christians which we are beginning right now—the end time. But it is the end result of what will happen when we cooperate with the grace of the Spirit to make everything holy in our society and culture. All of this brings us to what our response should be: it involves the whole idea of a personal mission statement.


One of the classic psychology self-help books which I quote often is Stephen Covey’s book “7 Habits of Highly Effective People” written a number of years ago. He calls his second habit “Begin with the End in Mind,” and suggests that we write our own personal mission statement as we go about our lives. We do it by determining the principles that guide our lives. To find out what they are, he says, we need to envision our own funeral, saying: “Imagine that as your casket is being lowered down into the ground, your family and friends are standing around watching. What are they thinking about? What do you want them to think about, imagine and remember?” He says that it is precisely these images and memories—what you want them to think about—that are the principles that make up your mission statement.


Judging from Jesus’ first words, Jesus would say that if you professed to be a Christian in your life, the things that people should say about you should include a couple of principal ideas. First, he/she was a person who tried to do something about the faults in his/her life. And second, he/she tried to make the situation around him/her better than it was.


Those of course are very general directives, and if we are to make them personal, we have to bring them down to our situations right now, whatever they may be. They will include our family, our location, our circumstances, the culture in which we live, our particular situations, the people that we deal with, the people who make up our lives. Then, we both recognize our possible sinfulness with those situations, and repent of any sinfulness. And then, recognize the need we have to make those situations holy, that is, we must promote the Kingdom.


I think it involves actually writing down our goals, taking the time to write down our personal mission statement, carrying them with us, reading them from time to time, and revising them as we need to. It means actually keeping them in front of us in some way. A good teacher told me that years ago, and I have done it ever since. We should write down the personal goals that we have and carry them with us.


Returning to that thought of Stephen Covey concerning what we want people to say about us when our casket is being lowered into the ground, may I suggest something. The next time you pass a cemetery, ask a question about your goals in life. They should include being sorry for the past, and trying to make the present something holy, that is, repenting and promoting the Kingdom.


MEDIA PRESENTATION

Movie: "Leave No Trace" -- beginning session

LOVING A PARENT



 

The Gospel


LUKE 2:51-52

Jesus went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was obedient to them; and his mother kept all these things in her heart. And Jesus advanced in wisdom and age and favor before God and man.

Gospelthink: I was obedient to parents as a young person because it was great preparation for the future. Do I respect my parents at this time of their lives?



Tom, the teenage daughter of Will who suffered from PTSD, did not know what was wrong with her father. She knew that he suffered from some disability that kept him from living a normal life with people and sharing their friendships. But she also knew that she loved him with all her heart. So she learned from him, allowing him to direct her living in his impaired world. She probably knew that some day she would have to become an adult, and living in the wilderness with her dad was no way to prepare for it. But she also knew that she wanted to care for her dad. She was there for him when they were taken from the park where they were staying. She cared for him when he was physically hurt. And even toward the end of their lives together which she knew had to come, she wanted to care for him even after they had to part ways.        

The human Jesus grew up relatively hidden in Nazareth. We do not know much about it except for the evangelist Luke's comment that he was "obedient" to his parents. He also grew up in a good way--"advancing in wisdom and age and favor before God and man." It means basically that he loved his parents and that his parents loved him.

Most young people can say the same thing--that they love their parents, and it is a tragedy that there are families that are broken from lack of love. In the movie "Leave No Trace," the young teenage girl whom we only know as "Tom" loved her father completely. She did not know her mother, but one is led to believe that she would have loved her as well. Her love of her dad, however, was to take her to very special circumstances. Her dad had the disease known as PTSD after his time in military service. He could not live with people around. As he chose to live in the wild, knowing that he wanted to take care of his daughter, it put Tom into a life that certainly was not a normal one. But no matter what the circumstances were, she loved her father, and therefore had to adjust to the situation.

In the life of any family, hardly ever can it be defined as "normal," The family will grow and events will happen which make growth challenging. There will be illness, deaths, unexplainable happenings, and the like. The lesson to learn from the Scriptures is the lesson of Jesus toward his parents. It is likewise the lesson of Tom in the movie.  Love must be present or the family will falter. That includes, of course the love of a child for the parents.

Such a love may be the most difficult. A young person must adjust oftentimes to the very confused life of parents who have serious problems. Unfortunately, some children and young adults find it very difficult. But if young people are to turn out well--grow in "wisdom"--the young person must adapt and continue to love well.

PRAYER

Good and gracious God,  Your Son early on gave us the example of true love by his love of his earthly parents.  Give us the grace to truly love those who are close to us, even in difficult circumstances. Be with us we pray. 

 

+++++

GUIDELINES FOR CLASSROOM PRESENTATION AND PERSONAL ENRICHMENT


Theme: A young person will show love of a parent even in difficult circumstances.


DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

(session: approximately  51 minutes)
1. What scene during this session of the movie was most striking to you? Why?

2. What can we learn from Jesus' hidden life in Nazareth?
3. [personal question not to be answered publicly] As I study my own family, are there some relationships that I can improve? 
4. What are some of the causes of the problems in families?
5. What is the best way for a young person to cope with a poor family life?
6. In your opinion, do most families experience true love?
 



©2007 Capuchin Province of Mid-America
Fr. Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin Province of Mid-America