December 28

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GospelThink

Sunday, December 28, Holy Family

MATTHEW 2:13-15,19-23

Joseph’s Decisions


Prayerthoughts

a. Again God speaks to Joseph in a dream. Do I allow the dreams that I have to “speak” to me about my life, and adjust my life for the better?

b. It was a difficult journey that the holy Family made. Am I facing the difficulties of my life the way that the Lord wants me to?

c. The evangelist Matthew recalls Scripture to explain an action. Do I pay enough attention to the Scripture which I read or hear?

d. Herod was an evil man who did evil things. There is evil in the world. Do I pray forthose who commit the evil, asking the Lord to continue giving them the grace to understand their evil? Do I look at the evils around me and do what I can?

e. Joseph was very aware of his responsibility to his family. I have responsibility in my life as well. What is the greatest responsibility that I have, and can I do it a little better than I am?

f. Perhaps the greatest responsibility I have is toward my family and extended family. In what areas with my family can I improve?

g. Joseph was following the Lord’s wishes, but he realized on his own that Archelaus would not be good for the family. I always should be thinking of what is best, and willing to make adjustments. God was with Joseph directing him to Galilee. Do I look at the actions of my life as God directing me?

h. My prayerthoughts…


Today, I will Colossians 3:12-21 and write an important thought from it.

Some Thoughts on the Liturgy

DEALING WITH THE MESSES

+ In my book “The Message of Youth” – which I can get you by the way

- I talk about “messes” in people’s lives

- and a very good description of a “mess” is given to us in the Gospel:

- Jesus is born in Bethlehem away from their home

- already a mess in itself

- then because of Herod, according to Matthew’s Gospel, Joseph had to take Mary and the newborn child to the country of Egypt around the bottom of the Mediterranean Sea, a journey of about 300 miles or so

- very difficult because they were probably on foot

- they had to stay there, settle, make a living, etc. for a period of about two years until Herod died

- then the family made that same journey the other way and would have gone back to Judea but knowing what the ruler was like there, they went back to Nazareth in Galilee, and finally settled there

- again, setting up a family life with making a living, etc.

- that was a “mess”

- defined to be a family crisis which is not going to change easily and will continue to be a problem for a significant amount of time and the family usually has absolutely no control over


+ I believe every family has a mess

- and therefore every family in here has some type of a mess

- something that has disrupted or is disrupting the normal process of living

- an illness, a death in a family, a disruptive family member, a family member leaving the Church, an alcohol problem, a tragedy of the past that affects our thinking, a parent with dementia, difficult people in the place where we work

- there are all kinds of “messes”

- and they are real, not funny in the least, and they “mess up” everything that is in the immediate area

- and every one of us has one to deal with in some way


+ The question of course that must come up is how to deal with the messes

- for that, perhaps we should study the example of Joseph in the Gospel

- and although we can’t really tell all of the ins and outs of his thinking, we get a general idea

- Joseph was able to listen to God as God talked to him through his dreams

- and that in general is what we have to do to generate a healthy attitude as we work with the messes: we allow God to help us through the messes


+ Later on the child he was protecting, Jesus, was to do the same thing

- Jesus had “messes” in his life as well

- not the least of which was what he went through to redeem us

- and the way he dealt with those messes was the same as his foster-father Joseph: a healthy attitude that came about through listening to God

- in fact, as we consider Jesus’s activity, we can see how often he turned to his Father in quiet prayer, allowing God to lead him to work out a solution


+ The Christian believes that the attitude we should adopt might be called the “attitude of Jesus”, the attitude of listening to God

- an attitude that basically calls for us to understand Jesus’s life and ministry by reading the Gospels

- that is an attitude that practically says:

- react to life, and therefore to the messes of life, with an attitude that is guided by our listening to Jesus in the Gospels—with love, with forgiveness, with peace, with the ability to stay calm even in the midst of pain


+ The best description of that attitude in the Scriptures, I believe is today’s second reading that I suggest we listen to again (I have added a couple verses before it):

Think of some messes in your life right now, and realize that the Lord through this reading is speaking to you:

This is the attitude of Jesus, what should be the Christian family attitude:

You must put

anger, fury, malice, slander, and obscene language

out of your mouths.

Stop lying to one another,

since you have taken off the old self with its practices

and have put on the new self,

which is being renewed in the image of its creator.

Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved,

heartfelt compassion,

kindness,

humility,

gentleness,

and patience,

bearing with one another

and forgiving one another, if one has a grievance against another;

as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do.

And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection.

And let the peace of Christ control your hearts,

the peace into which you were also called in one body.

And be thankful.

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly,

as in all wisdom you teach and admonish one another,

singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs

with gratitude in your hearts to God.

And whatever you do, in word or in deed,

do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus,

giving thanks to God the Father through him.
 


 

 

 

 

MEDIA PRESENTATION

Movie: "Ordinary Angels" -- beginning session

OUR CALLING



 

The Gospel


MATTHEW 10:5-8

Jesus sent out these twelve after instructing them thus, “Do not go into pagan territory or enter a Samaritan town. Go rather to the lost sheep of the house of Israel. As you go, make this proclamation: ‘The kingdom of heaven is at hand.’ Cure the sick, raise the dead, cleanse lepers, drive out demons. Without cost you have received; without cost you are to give.”

Gospelthink:  As he sent his apostles to help with His call, so in a sense, he sends us who are baptized to continue His work.



Sharon Stevens had the disease of alcoholism. Like many who suffered from the disease, she was able to lead an average life most of the time.  And she was a caring person.  She had a successful business as an owner of a hair salon, but she found herself looking to help others. She saw in the paper the story of five-year-old Michelle Schmitt who had just lost her mother and needed a liver transplant.  Sharon became immediately responsive to her need. She introduced herself to the family at the funeral and began an incredible time of service to Ed, the child’s father, and to his family.  She conducted money-making projects, helped Ed manage his finances better, motivated Ed to find another job, begged the hospital to forgive the immense debt and in general improved the little girl’s chances of receiving the transplant.  At the same time she tried to reestablish his connection to her own son. Eventually, however, the alcoholism took over her life, and Ed finally had to ask her to leave his family alone.

Jesus chose from the poor of his world those who would be his Apostles and the leaders of the Church which was to form after Jesus left.  One can say as a result then that his first followers had their own problems.  And further, the one who was the leader totally denied that he knew him at one time; they fought about who was more important than the others; another was His betrayer and the immediate reason why he was executed.  Yet, he used them. And gave them power to cure the sick, raise people from the dead, and cleanse lepers, even to control evil spirits.  They were flawed human beings, but they did amazing things. 

In the movie “Ordinary Angels,” Sharon Stevens was a flawed human being. She had a disease that was to eventually completely take over her life—alcoholism. But even with that major fault, she cared about others. And in particular, she learned to care about one little girl to su3ch a degree that it is no exaggeration that the little girl could have life because of Sharon.  A study of her life would probably reveal that she was helping Michelle Schmitt simply because she needed to help herself and was “hiding,” but there is little doubt that she truly cared for the little girl.  

There is a tremendous and important lesson there.  We are all flawed human beings in one way or another.  We may not be the victim of alcoholism or some other completely enveloping disease, but we are flawed in some way. By the very fact that we are human, there will be “problems” that obsess us, and we need the opportunity to honestly see ourselves. 

It is true to say, however, that just as the Lord chose flawed apostles, just as he chose an alcoholic to save another’s life, he also chooses us.  If we are Christians, that is, followers of Jesus, we are all called to minister to the world in which we live.  There is someone right now in our life who can benefit from something that I can do.  It might  be very small—like giving a compliment; or something quite big—like leading a community to do the right thing.  But it is our calling. 

The Lord calls us, no matter how flawed we are, to do his work!

PRAYER

Good and gracious God, You are well aware that the world in which we live needs Your help.  And you will give us that help by using us to bring it about.  Help us be more aware of the people in our lives including ourselves who could have a better living because of the help that you and I can give them. Be with us, we pray.

 

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GUIDE FOR CLASSROOM PRESENTATION AND PERSONAL ENRICHMENT

Theme: People who willingly help others often have their own personal problems.
 
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
(session: approximately 55 minutes)
1. What scene during this session is most striking? Why?
2. In your opinion, why did Jesus choose ordinary people of his time instead of religious leaders to announce his Kingdom and future Gospel?

3. How can we best treat the disease of alcoholism?

4. Do most people in our world take the time to study what their “flaws” are? Yes or no and why?

5. What is the greatest need in our society right now, and can “normal” human beings like me do anything about it?

Fr. Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin Province of Mid-America