December 2

  [media presentation below]

GospelThink

Monday, December 2, Advent I

MATTHEW 8:5-11
The centurion showed great faith in me.

Prayerthoughts
a. The centurion was not only a Gentile; he was in the service of the Romans. Yet, even though he may have been rough and harsh at times, he is still concerned about his servant. Do I show enough concern for all others, no matter who they are?

b. Jesus is most willing to help everyone. Do I show that same type of willingness?

c. Am I convinced that Jesus will be with me always and that he will always send “the word” to help me?

d. Jesus was amazed at the centurion’s faith, saying probably in exaggeration, that he had not seen such faith among his own people. What are the ways I can strengthen my faith?

e. My prayerthoughts…


 

Today I will read Isaiah, chapter 2, and write an important thought from it.

Some Thoughts on the Liturgy
 

THE LIGHT OF THE LORD

 
+ The first reading of the first couple of weeks of the Advent liturgy is dedicated to the book of Isaiah
            - Isaiah is a prophet of the 700’s before Jesus
                        - a prophet who having seen horrible destruction foresees a time of peace
                                    - using beautiful imagery: people will beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks—total peace, no weapon of destruction
                                    - God will protect with a cloud by day and fire by night
                        - and so the prayer—let us walk in the light of the Lord
 
+ Using that exhortation, the spiritual person will ask the question often of how to walk in the light of the Lord
            - Isaiah gives his answer—it must be a way of peace
                        - war and lack of peace on a national level is a concern of ours and should be
                                    - so that we are continually praying that the leaders of people will finally make use of God’s grace
                                                - and move toward peace-
                        - but we have to be concerned about peace on a personal level
                                    - peace in our own homes and workplaces
                                                - making sure that we are not the cause of unrest and hatreds and malcontent
                                    - and peace personally
                                                - which can only come from spending time with prayer and thinking about God’s desire for us
 
+ Another answer is given in the Gospel—how does one walk in the light of the Lord?
            - he works on his faith
                        - one of the problems with Matthew’s community was that they didn’t have the faith they needed
                                    - and so Matthew hammers away at faith, recalling how Jesus called on faith throughout his ministry
                                                - here with a Gentile, who was polite enough to realize that a Jew risks ritual defilement to enter a Gentile home
                                                            - and so he states the now famous—because of our liturgy—statement about not being worthy
                                    - but the big thing about the centurion was his faith which Jesus says was stronger than any in all of Israel
                        - how do we work on our faith?
                                    - we keep on trying to strengthen it by our living it out
 
+ If we want to walk in the light of the Lord, we will be people of peace and we will be people of faith.





MEDIA PRESENTATION

Song: "Easy on Me" -- Adele

THE GIFT OF TIME





 

The Gospel

JOHN 4:16-18,27-30

John 4:16-30

Jesus said to the woman, "Go call your husband and come back." The woman answered and said to him, "I do not have a husband." Jesus answered he and her, "You are right in saying, 'I do not have a husband.' For you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true." Jesus's disciples returned, and were amazed that he was talking with a woman, but still no one said, "What are you looking for?" or "Why are you talking with her?" The woman left her water jar and went into the town and said to the people, "Come see a man who told me everything I have done. Could he possibly be the Messiah?" They went out of the town and came to him.

Gospelthink: The Samaritan woman saw who I was. Is it clear from my life that I have chosen the Lord? 



"There ain’t no gold in this river that I’ve been washing my hands in forever. I know there is hope in these waters, but I can’t bring myself to swim. When I am drowning in this silence, let me in. Go easy on me, I was still a child, didn’t get the chance to feel the world around me. I had no time to choose what I chose to do, so, go easy on me. There ain’t no room for things to change when we are both so deeply stuck in our ways. You can’t deny how hard I have tried. I changed who I was to put you first, but now I give up, go easy on me.”  

These meditations have often pointed out that Jesus did not have anything to say about the process of discovering "romantic love." Life commitments to each other were arranged rather than discovered in Jesus' time. Consequently, the person searching the Gospels for how to work with romantic love will never find it. But the Scriptures give many examples of people searching for love in their lives.

Studying the lady in John's Gospel who has been described as the "Samaritan woman," we see a person who was searching for love in the life she was leading. The fact that she had several lovers is a statement of a person trying to discover true love. Studying her situation leads us to conclude that she had many relationships that had failed.

According to her, Adele's song "Easy on Me" was written as a result of her divorce. Reversing our thinking then, it is an excellent song for anyone who is thinking of marriage because she explains what she did wrong. The person looking toward marriage can listen to her and "do it right." Among her lessons, she tells us:

She knew that she said "forever," but she did not know its real meaning;
When the marriage was a little shaky, she knew that there could be hope;
She knew that he could still "let her in," if she could convince him;
In many ways, she was still a child with romantic love because she had much to learn;
She knew that she should have spent more time to know what she wanted;
She knew that she and her lover were often stuck in their ways, and wouldn't change;
She knew that she had to try harder;
She knew that she had to change, but she had to sense that he would as well.

It is difficult to summarize all of those thoughts into one direction, but if there is one guiding thought to all of it, it may be her words, "I had no time." A person in love with another does not know the personality and feelings of another. The person has knowledge of how she/he feels in a situation in whatever circumstance they are in, but she/he really has no knowledge of how the other feels. And the only way of knowing is by giving themselves the gift of time. Then during that time, they would be able to communicate exactly what their feelings were, and change if need be.
It is interesting in the story of the Samaritan woman in the Gospels that Jesus knew that she did not "have a husband." In twenty-first century terminology, she had a number of divorces. Perhaps it was because she had not given enough time to each relationship.

PRAYER

Good and gracious God, permanent commitments are very difficult to establish given our lifestyles, but if couples are to be happy, such commitments must be learned. In whatever role of life we choose, give us the grace to follow through on the commitments that we make. Be with us, we pray.

 

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GUIDE FOR CLASSROOM PRESENTATION AND PERSONAL ENRICHMENT

Theme: There are reasons why a relationship fails, and it is difficult to face those reasons.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. What does the song "Easy Son Me" teach young people?  
2. What is most striking about the story of the Samaritan woman in John's Gospel?
3. In your opinion, what is the biggest reason that there are divorces in our country?
4. Studying the lessons outlined by Adele's song and the meditation text, which one is most important to learn?
5. The meditation suggests that "giving each other time" is most important for love relationships. Do you agree with this analysis and why or why not?
6. According to most counselors, lack of communication is the number one cause of marriage breakdowns. Obviously, the more time a couple has, the better the communication will be. Why do many couples not take enough time to build the relationship?  

 

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Fr. Mike Scully is a member of the Capuchin Province of Mid-America-