Some
Thoughts on the Liturgy
“LOVE
OF NEIGHBOR” SPIRITUALITY
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There was a parish mission in one of the affluent parishes in a
major metropolitan area
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the mission speaker asked a question: “What are the basics of
Christian spirituality?”
- I’ll give you the basics,
he went on to say, and they are happening right in front of
your eyes
- he referred to an article in
their local paper a couple of days before
- an elderly person went each
day to the newspaper box on the corner
- she placed her money in the
slot, opened the door, and took all of the papers
- finally she was caught
- the charge was that she was
stealing the papers and then selling them
- but when the authorities
found the whole story, she was acquitted
- the story was that she had
very little money and she had been taking the newspapers back
to her home to use as fuel
- she said that she wanted to
be warm at least a few minutes a day during that particular
cold spell
- he challenged the parish and
said: “Before we can even talk spirituality in this church,
we have to do something about the basics of living as
Christians in the world.”
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the parish went on to give a large amount of money to the
surrounding shelters that year
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John the Baptist is asked a question in the Gospel today by
those he was baptizing—similar to that question of the parish
mission speaker
- what should they do to gain
eternal life?
- he answers it in two parts
- the first part is what might
be called “the love of neighbor spirituality”
- give away some of your extra
coats
- give some of the food you
enjoy to someone else
- don’t cheat anybody
- don’t talk of others in a
bad way
- don’t steal from others
- and only after that, does he
talk about “the love of God spirituality”, that is, the
importance of Jesus, the importance of Baptism, and the threat
of hell
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the pattern toward a better spiritual life from John the
Baptist’s point of view is: take care of “the love of
neighbor spirituality” first and “the love of God
spirituality” will be much easier and will follow naturally
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I think that this is very important because it touches part of
our spiritual problem
- we have a tendency to love
God first, and think that that is enough
- we have a tendency to think
that going to Church is more important than loving our neighbor
- because it is so much easier
- and actually it gives rise to
contradiction:
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for example, a person can go to Mass every Sunday and at the
same time be people who have an angry attitude toward life
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or a person can go to Communion, even every day, and at the
same time refuse to keep her/his mouth shut about other people
in town or in the parish in a negative way
- I think that we often get
caught up in “the love of God spirituality” and forget to
start with “the love of neighbor spirituality”
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the fact is that we can’t achieve a closeness to God without
first of all, achieving a real love of our neighbor
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The primary part of that “love of neighbor” spirituality
for most Americans is the basic love of a husband for a wife
and vice-versa, a wife for her husband
- if we are married, this
weekend is a good weekend to ask ourselves about how we are
treating our spouse
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or we should look at our families and extended families, and
ask the question of whether we are treating everyone with the
respect they deserve
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or look at the circle in which we most associate, and ask the
same question—are we treating them with the respect they
deserve?
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In the second reading, Paul gives the formula for a spiritual
person
- he mentions prayer as one
would suspect—talking to God is extremely important in the
spiritual life—but BEFORE he mentions it, he says:
“Your kindness
should be known to all.”
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as John the Baptist, he gives them “the love of neighbor
spirituality” first, and only then does he talk about prayer
and the “love of God spirituality”
- it is an important lesson for
us to learn.
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